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ME ON THE INSIDE OUT

Hey guys, so as you can see from the title this  is a self-appreciation post that everyone should read cause it’s a small thing I’ve learnt and something I really hope you guys will read over again when you feel like you’re not enough.

Over the last few years in my life my physical has changed a lot, I had hair a while back in I think 12th grade but cut it by January 2016, fortunately it grew and by April of that year I had hair again, so I kept it, relished in the different hairstyles id do, if you know me you’d know I’m not afraid to do any color, except pink or purple that is. Now I cut my hair, and a lot of people have the typical black girl image in mind, yunno, beyonce Rihanna, zendaya, yara, etc or the ones with long ass natural hair and I have punk. Funny enough though contrary to popular belief I do not want to be a boy, I feel beautiful with or without my hair, so yeah I don’t have it, oh well.

I know how a lot of people change themselves so they fit in, struggle with weight, skinniness, skin color etc. and I know how hard it is. We’ve like heard of girls gagging themselves to look like the models in the magazines or surgeries to have certain people’s nose or lips and that’s another level of insecurity. I am one for free will, but then not to the extreme, you can do your hair in a certain way because you like it, heck you can wear baggy shirts cause you’re comfortable, you can wear a crop top if you have a fat stomach cause to you it doesn’t matter and I do believe it doesn’t. What’s important is how you are UNAPOLOGETICALLY  YOU!!!!

Fun fact you don’t have to be like everyone else, we weren’t made to look exactly like each other, I think the best thing about humans is the diversity in us cause everyone is different and has something to bring the the party.  Something I feel I have asked and I know that a lot of people might still me skeptical about is being you, people go, what does that really mean. Well, being yourself is understanding you’re not perfect, you’re not like everyone else and saying you know what I don’t care, its making decisions that are only influenced by the bible or your parents and that you’re comfortable in your own skin and the way you are.

Also, before I go, there’s this thing, about your mind and your body and your spirit being one, this comes in to play very greatly here. There’s this undeniable glow that exudes itself when you’re comfortable and you’re at peace, need proof perhaps? When a bride goes on the honeymoon and comes back notice them, they start to shine more, because they are more at peace. So you guys just have to understand that how to feel about yourself comes first so love yourself the way you are and don’t be in a hurry to change.

Below is my new look so you know you can still look beautiful if you're satisfied, some days yeah I don't feel good and I don't look good😂 we call it a bad picture day, but I realized when I'm happy then... Well tadaaaa







I think I look really good😂
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  2. You didn't gimme photo credit for the pissure😥 ,but awesome post!!!!!!

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  3. Pascal... Hew 😂
    Beautiful write up sweetie 🌸

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  4. Nice write up. Loving it that you're being yourself. Peer pressure has nothing on you.

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  5. Lovely post ,the world right now needs bloggers like you to send out good messages such as this one ,I absolutely love it

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