VIOLET REDUX

Hey everyone, so I have been inactive in over a year. I’d usually explain why I was and go on and on and apologize but I’ve decided that everything requires getting used to so I hope you guys are ready to watch me grow and learn with this.  I know I haven’t really decided what exactly this blog is going to be about so far but considering I’ve been doing this for nearly 3 years and it’s been all over the place in some sort of disorganized mess why don’t we keep it going like it is  😂 . For years VR has been a safe space for me to share stuff I never saw myself sharing. I’ve written poems, reviews, lifestyle advice done interviews and it keeps growing. I’ve gotten a lot of positive comments despite the negatives but I still love writing as much as I did the first time I tried to write a novel in year 7. So I’m going to keep doing that regardless.  Let me give y’all a little update, so far I’ve been working on a lot in terms of my own life and sometimes (most times) I strug...

M:Hey, how are you D: I’m good ,how’re you M: I’m good as well M: Can you introduce yourself to us? D: Oh okay D: I’m Dele, but popularly known as delz or DelzTheplug M: That’s good and how old are you D: I actually don’t like to speak of my age but I’m well over the adult age (18) D: I don’t mean I’m 18 if you understand M: Okay that’s fine that’s alright M: Would you be comfortable telling us your birthday? Who knows people may send gifts 😂 D: For sure  😂 ... my birthday’s on the 4th of March D: This interviewer is my twin btw 🌚 M: Yah! LezzgedditttI M: So let’s get into the main main gist M: How long have you been dancing and video editing? D: Omo 😪 D: Ever since I started dancing I’ve been the one editing my video till now D: And that dates back to late 2016/ early 2017 D: Making it about 3 years ago M: That’s been a relatively short time considering your current level D: That’s just when I actually took...

Hey everybody, Obehi here. I don’t think I need to explain why I haven’t been active and all. This has been a very trying time for all of us, as humans as Nigerians, just in general. I’m sending out my love to those who need it, because something I’ve realized is how social media is being misused. Spoken as somebody with extreme anxiety the things we consume online affects us greatly and I know for a fact those that aren’t very mentally healthy aren’t taken into consideration. I am not here to lecture you about the virus, I’m sure you receive that a lot. I’m here to do my part and spread as much love and possible. So I’m here with a couple of fun and productive activities you can do with the internet or without the internet in this quarantine period. Hopefully I’ll take some of the stress away with this. 1. Start or join a fun group chat: So This is pretty easy and fun way to kill time, opening a group chat with a lot of your friends. You guys can share stories, jokes, memes ...

Hey guysss I'm going to say this because I think today is the day. And what I'm thankful for today is for God's love. I mean what better way to start my series right. A lot of people know me from what they see and a few from what they've heard. All probably not so great ways to figure me out, but you did what you can you know 😂. What most people don't know is what I deal with behind the scenes. The battles I've had with insecurity, weight gain, depression, anxiety, verbal abuse, emotional abuse, even in some cases, physical. I won't go into detail, but I will let something that's deep out because I had to pray before this post. And it's pretty nerve wrecking, don't sign off so quick though. I know what you're thinking ah she has gone and come, and she's depressed no trust me every day is a brand-new day in the journey to being your best and most legit self. A lot of people dealt with, and still deal with suicide urges o...

I used to be ashamed of being who I want to be You think because I’m a woman then I really can’t be me  You think cause I’m black then I really can’t be free  Well screw all your stereotypes cause God loves all equally I wanna be the president I really want to rule  Not cause I think I’m better cause I know what I can do  Cause every life we lose it makes me feel so confused Like is this really what my country has amounted to This isn’t just a poem  It’s a clear out declaration  I am Nigerian it’s my home and it’s my nation  I’m tired of killings and I’m tired of the pain  I’m 18 and I’m scared will I see the next day  Will I see my matriculation, my certification or convocation, or will I make it to my next birthday This is a call to everyone who thinks that they can do better  Everyone who knows now won’t be forever  When you leave your country you open doors up There’s evil there’...

Hey guys! I'm back with a very special and interesting one today and one that you'll need to share with your friends after hopefully Okay as most of you know I dance, I'm a dancer and this whole post revolves that a little. Ever since I started officially dancing which was about 3 years ago I've always been in groups. My first crew Ground Shakers, we had one gig but still. Then my church dance crew blazone which was an amazing Two  years but i had to leave them for a short while I was in this crew called UDX that was when I got a taste of my first actual open performance experience. And now Dynastie which is a crew that I hope we last honestly it seems like my last. Any way because I've been in quite a few I've picked up a couple of things and from other researches. So the secret the proper crew is pretty cool and easy but hard. Now it has less to do with technique or skill and more to do with connection with crew members. A lot of times people get i...