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❤️It’s Been A Minute❤️

Hey everyone, so I have been inactive in over a year. I’d usually explain why I was and go on and on and apologize but I’ve decided that everything requires getting used to so I hope you guys are ready to watch me grow and learn with this. 


I know I haven’t really decided what exactly this blog is going to be about so far but considering I’ve been doing this for nearly 3 years and it’s been all over the place in some sort of disorganized mess why don’t we keep it going like it is 😂.


For years VR has been a safe space for me to share stuff I never saw myself sharing. I’ve written poems, reviews, lifestyle advice done interviews and it keeps growing. I’ve gotten a lot of positive comments despite the negatives but I still love writing as much as I did the first time I tried to write a novel in year 7. So I’m going to keep doing that regardless. 


Let me give y’all a little update, so far I’ve been working on a lot in terms of my own life and sometimes (most times) I struggle but at least I’m able to say I’m not where I used to be mentally and all so that’s a good thing for me, progress is progress. I remember posting once about the crushing and the pressing and making new wine which has been what kept me all through these years, just understanding that the hard part of anything is the little part in between moving from one level to another. In a video game if you’re just standing there without trying to progress to the next level you’re not worried or stressed yeah? Well your growth is also stagnant. It’s a lot better to pick up the controller and keep trying even if you fail.


I say this to a lot of my friends, the difference between asking for something or doing something that may not work and doing nothing because you’re scared is really big. It opens a whole other option. if I ask for something I have the option of either getting a positive or a negative answer meanwhile if I don’t ask for it it’s a definite negative. That is how life works if you try this idea out it’s either gonna work or fail but if you never try then it’s already a fail. 


Anyways this was a rushed post because I just got this sudden burst of creativity at 10pm. I really hope I’m able to keep sharing things with you guys and able to get feedback as much as I did. I missed writing a lot. Very likely I’ll be working on a podcast soon, this may not work but I will try my hardest. 


Hope you guys are staying safe, remember Covid is not a joke. Wash your hands and wear your masks in places it’s required. Bye lovelies ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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