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Hey guys,

So, I have been reading a lot in hopes to get over my writers block, but I only found one solution that really stuck to me. “As a writer you’re going to have to keep writing through the blocks,” although this doesn’t sound easy and isn’t I had to try to write on this topic, because frankly if I don’t, I won’t feel like I’ve fulfilled my purpose one way or the other.

I didn’t put a topic originally because I want people to be curious enough to read this; I’m going to be talking about suicide. Not just this though over the next few pots I’ll be really hammering on those sensitive topics that are otherwise seen as controversial, because my goal  is the invoke this important conversations that are to be had.

Suicide, contrary to what our parents might sort of believe is something that a lot of teenagers have considered and maybe even consider, I have friends that do, I even do sometimes. Being a teenager isn’t the easiest thing to do and I agree. I know some parents are shocked maybe even mine if they’re reading this, but it’s true.

Most times the thoughts aren’t even ours, people make us feel like we’re not worth being alive, make us think there’s something wrong with us cause society unfortunately has a picture of what “ideal” is supposed to represent and if we don’t meet up were made to feel lesser than we really are and when we feel we can come home and be us, the real and original us, it doesn’t always work out that way.

BUT, I’m here to say, I’ve thought, I’ve attempted and I’m still here, still standing through it all, because I’ve seen what can happen afterwards, I’ve seen what the people around the victim can go through if they do commit suicide.

This post is for those that feel like it’s too much to handle, those that have been made to believe that they don’t matter, guess what guys? You do matter, you matter so much and you don’t know it but tryst me you do, everyone here alive and on earth has a purpose, and yes it takes a long time probably to achieve that purpose but it really does make up for it.

More importantly understand that you’re supposed to be alive, get that you’re still loved by somebody, even if it’s just one person, one person is enough reason not to give up. Being able to say, I made it despite it all is an amazing feeling, unbelievably so, it’s surreal. Nobody is worth it, worth taking your own life. God loves you, no matter whom you are and what you’ve done, he knows you, and you aren’t lost in the crowd to him, you’re a priority.

Thank you for reading this far, I know that I’m still young and I don’t know a lot of stuff but I feel very strongly about this, so share this to your parents if you agree, it’ll start a conversation, which is the most important thing, if you feel this way talk to someone. If you can’t however, talk to me, you can send me a message on instagram or an email. My instagram is: @_queen.mia or @violetreduxblog and my email is obehiodianosen@gmail.com

Share and comment your thoughts, if you want more topics not exactly like this one but just as effective tell me, if you don’t, tell me as well. Thank you so much for reading, Bye.