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My first request😊 (Phone situation by aliyah)

Hey guys⚡💎

So I got this request from a reader of mine Aliyah who dmed me on Instagram my handle is @thatedogirl_ BTW do DM me for advice, requests, suggestions etc.

So Aliyah wanted me to do a little snippet of why I think teens (us) use our phones too much..

Okay here it goes

After I got this request I started doing quite some Thinking and research cause I didn't have an answer immediately.

I am a teen girl so I love my electronics, I love the Internet, I love my apps etc. Electricity and data are my best friends (sorry Bev and Davy❤😂) but basically its true.


So I started to really think
P.S this is my personal opinion
And I came up with a rough theory. Social media.. It basically provides us an avenue to somewhat create new lives or remix our lives a bit.

Look at it, when we want to open an account in Instagram, Snapchat, Twitter.. Heck even google you have the complete liberty to input whatever you choose to and change whatever you choose to about yourself, your name, your age, etc.
Liberty isn't something most parents give their kids the option of having. So when you have a little liberty we tend to want to hold on to it. Which is why getting our phones or laptops which are basically our connection to the digital world taken away from us causes some sort of discomfort to us.

We are very human so we are programmed to want to have control over our lives. So its easy to get carried away with your followers on Instagram or twitter or Snapchat or anything online.


We tend to be more free... And more capable of finding ourselves when we are a bit out of the parental eye. Though yeah we can do silly things most times I do believe the Internet is help as much as it is an avenue to do rubbish with I do not agree with at all😐.

So Aliyah thank you again for this question I hope I answered it to your liking though you can still DM me for more light ⚡

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  1. Ebuks30 June 2017 at 05:50

    Well, this is true. The liberty it affords you.
    Imho, some use their phone excessively cos they get to belong to a group or to someone far away. We hamans want to be loved and appreciated.

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  2. Laraba30 June 2017 at 07:02

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  3. Laraba30 June 2017 at 07:08

    Awww,Obehi dear I for see you becoming a prolific writer. Loved your article,it was simply,playful and nice. Smiles.

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